Thanks KML- I know all the insurance options, I just still have to work out the logistics and see what's the right fit. Ex hasn't enlightened me to the fact that he lost his job so he as an obstacle in itself for getting the termination info.
As far as the house, I'm flipped, but the cost of it is really no cheaper than an apartment would be. That's where I struggle. It's not an emotional attachment and that has no bearing on the decision. My ex and I aren't divorced yet and I can't afford to pay for one. And I can't re-finance until we have a settlement agreement through the divorce.
Walking away from the house is probably the most viable option. I have posed this question to my attorney to see if I have exhausted all possibilities. I've even contemplated paying what I could on the house in the hopes that it would keep them at bay a little longer than the typical foreclosure. Maybe I should contact the mortgage company now and see if they have any options.
I'm not stressed out about it...I do believe everything will work itself out. I'm just still trying to figure out how to make things work...
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life