"Sven years ago I recall reading the 1st chapter, some posts, and skimmed the rest of the book."
Yeah that's why things didn't work out for you. It sounds like you were looking for a magic bullet. There is not fast way of going through this. You have to take things one step at a time. The lack of sex part was probably just a result of a bigger issue.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.