What to do

[Ben2010]

Okay, I'll bite since you asked nicely, Ben.

What I would like for you to do is to do your own de-briefing here and think back on what aspects you could have improved on.

-What did you learn from this interaction?

I think that I learned that being a pushover and letting the W do what she wants all the time right now is the wrong move. I also learned alot about what she thinks is wrong with the R. First time that she ever admitted any fault.

-Which part(s) that you wish for a do-over?

I dont know about that one yet. Ill have to think about it and get back to you.

-What were the take-aways from W's comments?

I think that I got to feel how much pain she was in and that it seemed to me like she was scared more than anything. Seems like she is putting up a barrier and is very scared of letting me in. I feel very ashamed that my W is scared of me. In fact just typing this is bringing tears to my eyes thinking about it.