I agree with kml. People want to help, all you have to do is ask. I've been amazed at how many are willing to help me with things around the house, spend time with me when I'm without the kids, etc. Share your story and folks will help!
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14