Hello everyone, long time no talk...LOL. Things have been crazy with me and my boys and end of the school year stuff, which doesn't leave a lot of time for anything else....especially with getting a life and all.
Well, what I have come to say is that ROCK BOTTOM may be near for my ex. I know that if I was in his sitch I would see it as such, but maybe not for an MLC'er....
To elaborate, after our last court appearance, it seems H has gotten himself in a huge mess...IRS debt and now terminated from employment from an $85-90K a year job with benefits and retirement account. I am not sure if this was a ploy to avoid wage garnishments for support, but the courts can deal with him now. I've realized, shortly before our court appearance that I would not be able to count on his time, money, or any other contributions that he could provide. I feel sorry for my boys, because I feel his "appearances" might stop soon here too.
I don't know what constitutes rock bottom, but losing a comfortable lifestyle for a lifestyle of running from debt and obligations without being able to afford any of them, or improve your life because of them sounds kinda rock bottom to me.
Oh well, to the drawing board I go. I have a lot of financial planning I have to do myself.
A hearing is being set up by the probation officer due to his lack of compliance. I'll probably touch base when the juicy gossip comes out.
Oh, and by the way, his first weekend with the boys... Memorial day weekend started of with a bang. I had the cops called on me by the ex because he picked up only the children for his visit, and not their whole lives packed in a nice neat bag fully paid for. The cops laughed and told him to roll.
I guess he just doesn't get how hard the rest of his life is going to be...does he really think he can run forever with wine taste and aspirations on a beer budget. He has successfully lost the last piece of his old life with me and the boys. There is nothing left that resembles his former self, and quite honestly, I can't see how he could ever attain it again. Sad, just sad. End Rant-
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life
