Hi adinva, You are very right about all those uncertainties and I have had some of those very same things happen in the past and come out it fine. Believe me, my life hasn't been charmed up until now. The one thing I have always thought I could count on has been my family (that includes my W). In a world of uncertainties, it was the one thing I always counted on and saw as unbreakable. You really don't know how strongly my W held her belief about never divorcing right up until B-day. She was almost militant about it. When she was still invested in our M and depended on me she held onto that very tight. It wasn't until after her depression and MLC that it changed.
Yes, I know that it DID change and I now must deal with that. It has been much harder I think to believe it would get this far because of what I talked about above. But you are right. Hard or not, what must be done, must be done. Maybe it's time that I went to see if I need some help as I'm starting to think I may becoming depressed myself as I have times where I just can't even think straight and that isn't me!
