Dont be less supportive

Figure out how to be supportive without feeling like crap.

You must work together for your D's.

If my H and I did not have our son, I would not even be standing not in this current situation. I would leave totall detach until H figured out what he needed/wanted to do.

Kids in the picture changing the whole game (for me anyway)

Be your W friend, co parent, focus on that only as it relates to your W


Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW