Figure out how to be supportive without feeling like crap.
You must work together for your D's.
If my H and I did not have our son, I would not even be standing not in this current situation. I would leave totall detach until H figured out what he needed/wanted to do.
Kids in the picture changing the whole game (for me anyway)
Be your W friend, co parent, focus on that only as it relates to your W
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW