1Wish, find ye21's thread on here and read through it. He's a great example of someone who first came on here saying he couldn't live without his wife, he did all the wrong things, wanted the quick solution, etc and now has moved on to an exotic location and sounds like he's happier than ever doing things he enjoys.
I don't tell you this to discourage you, but instead to show you that you can make it through this (with or without your W) by focusing on yourself. Take a deep breath, put your phone down (please!) and start working on yourself. Talking your W into staying right now will only lead to a repeat of this same scenario down the line. She has to want to be with you, not feel forced. Actions speak louder than words.
