Ditto those comments. Made me think. The entire future is uncertain. Thinking you know how it will be because you controlled some details (choice of spouse for example) is an illusion. People drop dead, jobs get lost, houses foreclose, and the people who suffer those can throw up their hands and fall into the fetal position or not. I believe you may have felt you could keep everything safe and secure by controlling as much as possible in your environment. Your girls are learning, and you should, how to be OK with uncertainty, with the knowledge that whatever it is, you'll handle it to the best of your ability and that will be good enough.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
