My Exwife regrets divorcing me to this day. When she left, she had a field day, bought a house, dated, lived it up.
One day after the divorce she called me freaking out. She had found out I started dating again and had let her go. For months she cried and begged. She even told me she considered suicide.
Trust me, the roads these Walk always take isn't always rosy.
Yes living it up is what my H is doing - taking this teenager away for her birthday this weekend, going out on the boat with her and her family, going out all the time, all of which he thinks he is hiding from me. However I have kept quiet and not said a word. It's honestly not worth letting him know I know - he will just continue to lie about it anyway or justify it that it is somehow my fault.
The possessions are 2 vehicles in my name only that he has hidden and will not return.