Hi 2B, I agree with what you say. The only thing that I don't agree with is pushing my W away as I have very min. interaction and what I have I try to be upbeat and not let her crap get under my skin. In fact, I'm beginning to think I need to be less supportive as all that it has seemed to get from her is her thinking I'm going to roll over and do whatever she wants in every aspect of the D. She needs to start understanding that this isn't some easy process where because she is getting what she thinks she wants, everyone will be better off and so very happy for her!
If she so loves her father and he has treated her like crap most of her life, maybe that's what she wants to be treated like. Maybe that's where I went wrong. I should have been demanding and dismissive and told her what she needs to do in order for her to be in MY life like he did. Seems to have worked well for him!
