What the?!

First of all, why do you two text these things? These type of conversations are never supposed to be in text format (you shouldn't be having them at all, but you don't learn)!

From a previous post you say that she spit on you and assaulted you? One should never stay with an abuser. Secondly, and maybe this is a generation thing, from her texts she sounds ignorant (then again, your texts do too). Why, exactly, would you even want this girl in your life? Sounds like you have some major self esteem issues.....

From your actions, and your total disregard for the advice you receive on here, you are literally writing the book on how to drive your spouse away as fast as possible. I've told you before and I'll tell you again: get a hold of yourself! Stop with trying to argue, whine, cajole and beg her back into your life. It's just plain UNATTRACTIVE! In fact, it's extremely repulsive. If you want your W to run into someone else's arms, then keep up the good work.

-HS