Hey Wonka, My list is done except for job search. I really wanted to be able to get enough funds out of this start up to live at least a few weeks before giving up and getting a new job. I am trying my best but everything takes time and I have so much on my plate from lawyers to phone plans to talking to my D's.
My oldest left today for the next 11 days. Her mother told her she will probably be moved in her new house by then! I can't believe the speed that she has been going since her dad came and she changed her mind about what she wants to do.
At this point I'm actually thinking about asking for spousal support with my lawyer. My W knows my job sitch. She knew going in it would take time to get things going but said she supported me. I don't think that's going to be too much to ask for. Let's see how she likes having to support me even after she leaves considering I worked when she didn't for 15 years of a 20 year marriage!