It's Time to Sing a Brand New Song

[Mimi00]

He called today to let me know he was finally off crutches and went to the court house to file the petition for dissolution. .. and it was only $230 "so that was nothing".... I wanted to respond "well congrats to you that its so easy to throw away $230 to divorce me".... but instead I said nothing

He said the court gave him some paper work to mail to me and he wants to help me fill it out so there are no errors. I told him just tell me the names of the documents....I already have them printed out and filled out 97% ... he sounded surprised....

But he still insisted on mailing the documents and asked if I still lived at the same address (I told him months ago I was leaving there so he knows that I do not) I said no....he said "well whats your new address....do you not want me to have it? I promise you I won't be sending you anything else...."

Listening to him question me I got frustrated and tears start coming to my eyes....and I tried to still sound the same but in a low voice I just said "I doesn't matter...." he said what? And I repeated...I told him id email it to him...he said to just text it....I said ok...bye and he hung up before I even hit the button.

I immediately sent my work address (which I gave him months ago and told him to mail everything there...and he didn't follow that request either)

He immediately sent back abd text "thanks!"

I wanted to respond what a jerk he was and how much I just want him to leave me alone.

I hate that he still has "control" and everything is his way or no way.

I wish I hadn't gotten emotion....but I'm tired of the unexpected contact from him....I was having a pleasant morning....now I'm crying.