Tarheel, thanks so much for jumping in! Very helpful perspective. One thing I wrote down in my journal (and need to remind myself)is that our family needs a leader and I need to be that leader. "Be the change you wish to see in the world" ;-)
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14