I'm sorry to hear about your sitch but your children are lucky to have such a strong mother.
I am really struggling. IRL I am pretty great and strong but here and behind closed doors I am really struggling with detaching. I received a call from my lawyer today that his lawyer is stating my H refuses to return my premarital possessions. We have not discussed divorce once since he just said he had talked to a lawyer and was seeing his options. It's like a big elephant in the room that he doesn't ever mention anything
I am trying to better myself and not let him bring me down but I can't help but feel tremendous guilt. I feel guilt that I did things in my marriage that made him unhappy enough to leave and engage in another relationship. I feel guilty that my boys are hurting especially my older son because he wants his family together
