TRY HARD to let it all go! Talk to your D's yourself, be gentle and honest, TRY not to speak negatively about your W.
Just be there for your D's and your W (if she ask you to be)
Are you trying to be the H only a fool would leave?
Be calm, nice and distant.
Even if your W never comes back, finalized the D. YOU will be a better person.
How is the job search coming? Put all your focus on you and getting a job, that will help you not feel so "stuck".
Fake it till you make it!!!
I know its not easy, but you have to get it together NOW!!!
I dont know you of course, but to be honest your posts feel like you are pushing your W away even more. Just pull back , stop worrying so much about what she is doing?
Let your W worrying about her relationship with your D's. They are old enough to see who is each of you really are.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
