Originally Posted By: Barrybran
1Wish, did you want to separate? Do you want to move out?

Act in a manner consistent with your choices while respecting your wife's opinions and feelings. In a nutshell, think about what your wife says, think about what you want and make your own decision based on what is best for YOU.


I dont want to seperate because I dont think ill be able to make her see me changing. And I just dont want to go I will miss her.

I also dont want to move out and im not on the tenancy remember so if anyone has to go it has to be me. Besides she hasnt got anywhere else to go.

My wife wants space as we all clearly gathered, but I want to give space while im still there.

BUT.. if theres more chance of her heart reigniting our love by me giving her space I would do it.. she says itll be about three weeks to come to a decision...


M: 25 W:22
Said she wanted a D March 2014

Everythings worked out for me for the best.