Mdu, my IC warned me of resentment building towards W and it's starting to surface for me as well. I agree with you that as time goes by, I've become more frustrated and at times, feel like I need to just unleash all my anger, disappointment, etc on W. I do find myself acting cold towards W at times, which I suppose is better than lashing out, but does not portray who I want to be.
What's helped me is something I read a while back that basically said during this time, 1 of us has to be the bigger person. It's a lot easier to get sucked into an arguement or to lash out than it is to be calm and collected when we've been hurt. I try to be that bigger person as much as I can, understanding that W is going through her own problems. It's difficult, I feel your pain. Try to maintain that PMA!
