1Wish, did you want to separate? Do you want to move out?
Act in a manner consistent with your choices while respecting your wife's opinions and feelings. In a nutshell, think about what your wife says, think about what you want and make your own decision based on what is best for YOU.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014