Matt, I know how hard this time is. They are going to do what they want to do and we have no control over that. i agree with mleigh above. the best is to be there for your D's and to be honest with them. I am sure it is extremely painful to them. I see that pain in my s20 and it is so hard. My kids know that I am a strong person. They know this sit makes me sad,but they also see me doing stuff for me. I think that is important too.
I have not read all your sit and I am interested to go back and read what 25 wrote.
I am beginning to learn my h is really gone. For my part, I can keep our d amicable for the sake of the kids.our home a pleasant place to be.


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13