He was 12 when his parents divorced, and this is when he made a decision to not have any kinds on his own. But he always seemed to be well adjusted and had reasonable thoughts and behavior.
I, on the other hand, always thought that I was raised in a dysfunctional family, with no love and emotional support. I realized that a lot of my problems came from that. Why Im not the one going through MLC then?
Bright - two things stand out here for me.
One is that a decision made when your h was twelve is one he has lived by - that is just strange.
The second is that I know a number of people from dysfunctional families who have realised the dysfunction and dealt with it. MLC is about stuff undealt with, as far as I can see.
