"But is this not going to make it easier for her to leave?"
So why don't you go ahead and chain her at home? That's essentially what you're doing. She's asking for space and you're saying that you're not going to give it to her. What do you think she's going to do next?
ok I will go on your words mrbond and do this.
My goals are now: Dont question her whereabouts Dont ask her any questions Dont text her unless she txts me Dont call her give her space and time Dont do anything romantic such as going for a kiss or hugging her or hold her at night