On an amusing note - I drove to the house today while H was at work to drop off some reuseable totes I had borrowed for moving. When I moved, I took the spring/summer wreath for the front door, and left him the fall/winter wreath (made up of red berry/crab apple-type things.) So what do I see when I pull up? H put up the fall/winter wreath on the front door. HA! Hope, if you read this, it reminded me of your H baking a cake when he doesn't like cake so that it seems more like home.
Haha! I immediately thought of my H and his cake-baking when I read this.