And since I have had 1,000 times more conversation in the past evening with my S16 than in the past year, now he's bopping all around me.
He had this thing on his tonsil that we were thinking was a strep or some kind of infection but he felt fine so we were letting his immune system handle it for now. He's been googling it and informed me that it is a tonsil stone. We checked it out together online and watched some videos. Is there anything that is not on youtube? And he's been up there poking it out and sharing updates with me as he goes. He wanted me to come up and smell how bad it smelled. I think I should get an award for doing that. I suggested now he can make some money if any of his friends get a tonsil stone because he has experience and a steady hand.
It's nice to have him bopping around paying attention to me.
He noted last week that I've been a pretty bad dinner maker lately. He thought we had domino's every night but he was wrong, it was dominos, chick fil a, dominos, and mcDonald's. It was a very rough week for me on a lot of fronts and depression was making everything harder not that that's a good excuse for me when I know what to do about it. But anyway, he got me. So yesterday, and today, I announced ahead of time a cooked dinner coming at a specified time, which they were invited to come down and eat and did. It was the first kind-of family dinner we've had in a while. Two of those in a row and I think this is what I have gotten as a reward, a boy who speaks to me about stuff. I'll try to do a better job.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.