Now my W spoke with my D14 without me which she promised not to do. She also lied about her school (told her that she never said she didn't want her going to private school) and didn't tell her she is ending our M nor that she will be needing to decide where she will want to live! She needs to be honest with her. Tell her the truth about what she intends to do. Tomorrow I will talk to her myself. I will be honest and not hide the truth from her. If my W had done this the way we agreed before her dad came into town, she would be fine. Now she can't just hide the truth from her D and think that's that. Who the hell is this person?