That is what I was leaning towards... it's hard for me, though, because I'm a pretty frugal person and find it hard to buy things unless I know I will get a lot of use or enjoyment out of them. The uncertainty of what might be makes it hard to move forward on things. But, you're right, it can always be sold or used somewhere in the house if it comes to that (and if that was the outcome I probably wouldn't give two hoots about extra furniture because I'd be rebuilding our M!)

I think I was being too hard on myself a few days ago with not wanting to go out and do anything, thinking about cancelling my vacation, etc. I felt like I should be over this, it's been 6 months.. but really it's only been a couple of days that we've actually been physically separated. Add to that moving to a new place and unpacking everything, plus having to buy new things because of the ones that were left w/ H, and it's perfectly normal to be a little down. I go back to work tomorrow so that will re-establish some routine.

On an amusing note - I drove to the house today while H was at work to drop off some reuseable totes I had borrowed for moving. When I moved, I took the spring/summer wreath for the front door, and left him the fall/winter wreath (made up of red berry/crab apple-type things.) So what do I see when I pull up? H put up the fall/winter wreath on the front door. HA! Hope, if you read this, it reminded me of your H baking a cake when he doesn't like cake so that it seems more like home. The front yard really needs some things taken care of, like the iris blooms cut off, but I guess it's not my place to remind him and just let him take care of it.


Me:30 H:29, no kids
T:12, M:4 (when D was final)
12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore"
6/14: Separated (I move)
1/15: H filed for D
5/15: D final