[BrightFuture]

Thanks everyone. Very interesting discussion here. I’ve been reading the updates and other threads, but just don’t have much time to post anymore. I will try to catch up with everybody.

AJM, you might be right that my anxiety is caused by my adjusting to the changes in communication from H.

Bea, I’ve read your updates on Heather’s thread. I don’t mind you high jacking my thread at all. Interesting thought about MLCer being stuck. I think I read it in one of Raine’s updates that her H told her he when he started thinking to come back home, but the thoughts of how much pain he inflicted on his family and that Raine would not want him back stopped him.

Heather, I don’t know how much my H has to work through. I always thought that he was luckier than me in his childhood. His family dynamics seemed to be just fine until his parent’s divorce. His mother loved him very much. I know this because I was going through his stuff and saw her notes and letters to him. The divorce was horrible though. This is where the trauma lays. And I think he’s been going through the process of acceptance of his parents' divorce for his entire adult life. He was 12 when his parents divorced, and this is when he made a decision to not have any kinds on his own. But he always seemed to be well adjusted and had reasonable thoughts and behavior.

I, on the other hand, always thought that I was raised in a dysfunctional family, with no love and emotional support. I realized that a lot of my problems came from that. Why I’m not the one going through MLC then?

Short update. H sent an e-mail today telling me to let him know when I update the company file, because he entered some more receipts. And he asked me if I was able to install the new version of QB ok. Why does he bother? A year ago he would not even think about it. Is he bored and looking for any excuse to get in contact with me? Am I reading more into this than it actually is? I haven’t replied to his previous e-mails when he sent me the file and installation instructions. Now he is asking me a question. I guess I need to reply.