I need a couch. I guess I don't NEED it like I need food and water, but it would be nice to have something to sit on and watch TV. H has all the couches for reasons too long for this post It would make sense to order a couch when I order bedroom furniture (which H also has, but will pay for my portion that I need) so I can just have one delivery fee. My concern is - what if it's a waste of money because I could end up moving back? Do I go ahead and act as if I'm never going back to the house and get what I need now, or wait awhile and see how things go? How long, then, do I wait? I'm having a hard time knowing what steps to take next.
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final