Found out tonight that my W told our D18 that she was moving. The only reason she gave was "it's unhappy here". Not a word about her and our M. Not a word about the fact that she has filed for D. W asked if she wanted to live with her. My D told her no because she needs to go to school and it would be too far. Apparently my W said she figured that. She added that she doesn't know what to tell her sister and is worried about that.
Again, the reason isn't her marriage or me but that it's "unhappy" here in our home. My D18 is so not understanding how she could file BEFORE evening leaving. To her that just doesn't make any sense nor does she think her mom will be happier. She said she thinks her mom may be "happy" at first because she is in a new place but "reality will set in and she will be back to exactly where she is now" (quote). Even my D18 is upset about what is going to happen to her sister. How her mom could want to do this after 25 years together with me. How she can't understand how her mom let her father get in her head.
I'm proud of how she has behaved with her mom. Not being angry but not liking it one bit. Now on to our youngest and how she will react.
