"The Show Must Go On"

[wishing, hoping]

Things have come to a screeching halt.

H put in our agreement that he would pay me the $3000 for the marital credit card upon the sale of the house. I asked him what if the house doesn't sell? He stated he just needed to have that language in the agreement so it would cover what he owes me but also so the underwriter would not view this as a debt. my lawyer says this is problematic.

H called and was freaking out. He claims his credit score has dropped significantly because I tried to obtain credit to pay off my attorney. And he claims that S ordering that moped from Craigslist negatively affected his credit too.

I told H my attorney stated our business with the $3000 repayment is problematic if we don't put something in which states when he has to pay me back. H flew into a rage and started freaking out at me. I told him he needed to calm down. He went on and on in his rage. I told him if he didnt calm down the conversation was over. He said if we change the language then he didn't know if he would be able to refinance.

I don't know what to do. I dont want to go back to the anger and fighting and I need to get my name off this house but I need to protect myself from H. I can't and don't trust him.

Why is everything with this guy ten times harder than it needs to be?

WH