"I did signup for something online and quickly got discouraged as it seems pretty weak. "
So in other words, you don't think the anger issue is that important, even though your anger has been an issue for you and your H. Why would your H stay with you if he's afraid you'll fly off the handle at any moment?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.