@mrbond - my W said shes seeing 1 of her mates last Wednesday but the mate she was meant to see was not even in the country.. I didnt know this until yesterday.
I confronted her and she still lied and said she was with her friend. Until finally she said that she went by herself to thebxoffee shop because she wanted some space from me and our marriage. I asked why did she not tell me and she said it was because she knew id try tagging along.