With all of that said though, y'all are the best----Betsey, you in particular.
I've struggled, but I have also changed for the better OVERALL as a husband. I was a good husband before.
Nah, I was a great husband. I deliberately tried to be through action.
And now I'm even better. I'm not perfect, but I came here because I was facing an issue with sex and what I've learned goes SO far beyond sex that it is almost just as satisfying.
Just writing down my emotions here helps, emotions I've tried to keep from my W at times and, now, emotions that have actually changed into ones that I don't need to keep from anyone, including my W. It's kinda profound.
It's not over yet, for sure, but I just felt like saying "thank you" to DB and anyone here who has helped talk and give their point of view and tell their story.
