Is OW just batsh!$ crazy?

[zew]

twin:

But if he was going to lie why say I am a bad mom?

Because cheaters lies always reflect badly on the LBS. It helps them justify their behavior. See you deserve to be cheated on because you're a bad mom. See how that works for him? Who doesn't think it's ok to cheat on a bad mom?

And this is why you believe none of what you hear.

Any opinions on somehow making sure OW knows about this? I do NOT need any additional crap from H but honestly I am so hurt by what he said I would really like OW to know what he is up to and kick him out on his azz

1 - You don't care what OW thinks about this. What on earth does her opinion of anything matter to you?
2 - Your H has lied, lied about lies, and lied some more. You don't get hurt by those lies anymore, remember? Because they are lies.

I am scared he will hold that against this baby and won't treat her the same as the twins.

1 - If he comes back around, he will perhaps think differently, no?
2 - And if he treats her differently, you won't tolerate that, will you.

Now, please resume your day as a calm, wonderful mother.