I know he hasn't realized his side of the problem in all of this. But if he was going to lie why say I am a bad mom? There are a million other lies he could have told but he picks that. That is why I think he really believes that.

Any opinions on somehow making sure OW knows about this? I do NOT need any additional crap from H but honestly I am so hurt by what he said I would really like OW to know what he is up to and kick him out on his azz.........

I am trying to be a calm wonderful mother and be the best person I can be. It hurts so much to hear that he thinks I got pregnant on purpose. I am scared he will hold that against this baby and won't treat her the same as the twins.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction