Always trying to strike a balance FY- I'm pretty strong and independent. Sometimes too much so and I think that caused some issues in the relationship. Of course he didn't fall in love with me as a doormat- he fell in love with me as a strong woman who was also compassionate and sensitive. At times I've tipped too far one way or another- I know that's where working on me and regaining my authentic self will help.

Boy what a journey.....whatever the ending is at least it will be worth it!


Me 41 H 40
M 20 T 23
S 19,16, 8 D 13
BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work
BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D
Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015
Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown