I'm new to the site. I've been working through the DB book and am a good portion of the way through it. I'm still having a hard time, have a wife that is still completely disconnected and running out of time. I've learned that I must be patient and take things slow. I am ok with that but I'm not making any headway. The BIG problem I'm seeing is that she refuses to stop looking at the past mistakes I've made. Yes, my mistakes have landed me where I am today. I'm taking every action I can to change. Not to toot my own horn but I'm doing very well at it. I'm still getting discouraged because she keeps concentrating on the past. What do I do?
