My h said the house was too clean:). Any other issues you can think of? I understand life got busy. Did you 2 spend much alone time together?
Just out of curiosity....did your h actually announce he was having an affair? That's not always the case so from reading your post it sounded like he said "I'm done and I'm having an affair."
Change what you need to FOR you. Focus on you and the kids. Calling your h or texting him about your day will only make him shut down more IMHO. In regards to MC, please be aware that WASs use that forum as the opportunity to say, " See! I did everything. Even counseling and it STILL didn't work." Many of us have been there.
I probably would save my $$$$ on MC. If your h doesn't want the marriage to work and isn't committed to the M, you will get a greater return on your investment playing slot machines in Vegas. I would take that money and use towards IC.
I know it's difficult. Try to enjoy your vacation. Your kids are d is this age only once. Have fun!
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3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
