Maybe this will help you understand your W a bit. Because im not entirely sure you undrrstand mlc...
Why do you think adopted people go searching for their biological parents even when they have had a great life? For healing, for closure, to fill a void.
Your W has an opportunity to have something in her life that she desperatly wanted and needed to heal herself. Whether that healint actually happens or not is yet to be seen.
Yes some people had it worse than the stories 25 told you and some may have been ok and some may have just appeared ok. You dont know. Only they do.
You are struggling with this because you think your W should be handling things differently. More like YOU would handle it. She isnt you and you arent her.
And that is something you need to understand and accept.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
