I'm sorry you find yourself here. However , this board is a wealth of information and support.
What do you want to talk with your h about while on vacation? And you cannot control what he thinks or feels about OW. You calling or texting him will not prevent him from living in fantasyland.
I say go, have fun with your D, and enjoy every minute of your trip.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer