Sex was great, then we married?

[GoatGal]

Grey,

I read that first comment as flippant:
"Don't take things so personally, another lesson from DB"

I think what you meant was:
"Don't take things so personally" is another thing I have LEARNED at DB."
Am I right?

Anyhow, according to DB principles, what I am still hearing is you defending yourself, instead of switching your focus to your wife and her needs at this time.

Obviously there is some kind of problem going on, but I think really tuning into HER right now, removing your desires from the equation, is the ONLY way you're going to find out what that is, and how to address it.


--GG