So H and DD11 left for a trip this morning, it's something that has been planned for a year. I know I will be talking to DD several times a day. What should I do about communication with H? Should I just stick with DD and not initiate with H? The problem I have with that is that I will be leaving with the other 2 kids later in the week while he will be coming home. I'm afraid that if I don't make any contact while we are apart, he'll just live in fantasy land with OW the whole time. Not sure what to do. Words of wisdom?