twin, this is that part where they say, "Believe none of what you hear."
Your H is being a douchebag. And, clearly, if he's trying to get laid by a person he's never even met, he hasn't been working on cleaning up his side of the street. OW is just another LBS, waiting to happen.
I'm sorry.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014