You seem to be taking as TRUTH the comments of a cheater during a text conversation where he is flirting and (presumably) trying to lead the convo in a direction whereby he can get LAID.
I'm not saying that he probably didn't ever hide the truth from you during your marriage -- God knows there's a lot of evidence in your threads to show that he did -- but I wouldn't put too much stock into a horny man's sexting.
