Is OW just batsh!$ crazy?

[twinmom]

Thank you, I am just so crushed by all this because he never told ME any of this. He just left and only said "we don't see eye to eye" so actually having reasons why he left is new to me.

He is so conflict avoidant that he just never wanted to leave and not talk about it. I always thought that in his mind I was a wonderful mother and I truly thought he would have listed that as one of my good qualities. But to see him "say" I am not to this made up person he has never met makes me wonder what else he thinks and has said to others.

I can and will continue to LOVE my kids, I just have always been a very strict parent and as a result my older boys are very respectful to other adults, eat healthy, and are on honor roll at a very good private school.






quote=Georgiabelle]Twin Mom,

Just a couple of observations. In regards to your h wanting to leave a year ago, I say that's script. My h wanted to leave 10 yrs ago, 5 yrs ago, 6 months ago prior to BD. Blah, blah, blah.

Do I think your h thinks you would take him back? I do think he thinks that. You are 9 months pregnant and have 4 other children. However, why would you want to take him back? Look, I realize this a M saving site. You can and should work on you and make you the best Twin Mom (of 5) possible. Your h would have to really, really addresss his issues and that is something you have zero control over. Could he do that? It's possible and it would take years of work on his part. Again, you have nothing to do with that.

Focus on you and the kids. You sound like a devoted mom and you have been through. so much. Take the high road. It really is the best option. [/quote]