TBoned - glad you got your thread posted I think you should go with your gut. I never got the "called to say hi" myself, he would text or email with some question usually or ask to visit the dogs, so I would always respond via text or email with "ok" or "thank you" or something short and simple and I always wait a few hours. I think if you feel like going dark that is your decision and instinct, then do it. Most likely he'll holler at you again. Keep making your changes and living your life for you. If you don't know what to do, it's best to do nothing and just wait until you feel clearer in your head on what to do. Pray on it if you believe in that - listen to the voice in your head. Sometimes sleeping on it gives you a clearer perspective in the morning. You can always text back if you don't want to hear his voice and just say did you need something? Journal about it to get it out of your head. That's just me though, you gotta do what works for you. sending hugs your way!
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
I think you should go with your gut. I never got the "called to say hi" myself, he would text or email with some question usually or ask to visit the dogs, so I would always respond via text or email with "ok" or "thank you" or something short and simple and I always wait a few hours. I think if you feel like going dark that is your decision and instinct, then do it. Most likely he'll holler at you again. Keep making your changes and living your life for you. If you don't know what to do, it's best to do nothing and just wait until you feel clearer in your head on what to do. Pray on it if you believe in that - listen to the voice in your head. Sometimes sleeping on it gives you a clearer perspective in the morning. You can always text back if you don't want to hear his voice and just say did you need something? Journal about it to get it out of your head. That's just me though, you gotta do what works for you. 