Tboned, so good to see you got your new thread up and running smile
That's a "touch and go" I think. They like to just reach out and tug on the rope. Make sure you're still there. I don't know why it is all so complicated. Mine contacts me via email or text every few weeks, you just never know what will happen. I usually respond after a few hours but keep it like talking to a coworker. No expectations. You're right though, it is easier when they leave you alone. Our minds seem to do the most damage. Shake it off and keep on livin' smile


Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs