I think that is totally up to you. If you don't want the D to move faster, let your h manage. You can't control what he thinks. If you want to move the process along, then don't be afraid to do so.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer