So far I've been letting him drive the D train-- he sets up meetings with mediator after asking if I'm willing to have another meeting. I don't step up to lead at all-- I don't ask or offer what the agenda should be, I am letting him be in charge of it.
It's moving very very slowly.
Should I be a more active participant? (I think no, because if he wants a D, he can work to get one, right?)
But I can also imagine him getting annoyed that the process is so slow. ..and blaming me for that. (Mind reading, right?)
